Repeat after me: There is nothing wrong with having hot sims in your game.
Now, when you start dreaming about them, you might want to consider going out into the world and meeting some new people. Not that that has ever happened to me. Really. Promise. WHAT?!
Gabriel Emerson by Misanthrope just might be dream worthy. If I were to have a dream about a sim. Not that I would.
Download Gabriel Emerson by Misanthrope for Sims 3 from Mod the Sims.